When my husband was wooing me in our single days, he had a basic rule of thumb to keep our relationship healthy. He considered the health and wellness of our relationship to be reliant on a level tri-pod, each leg representing a vital part of our relationship. There was the emotional leg, the physical leg, and the spiritual leg. If we invested too much time building only one or two of those legs, we would be off balance. It worked really well for us and each time we talked, we discussed how we were doing in those areas.
The tri-pod works straight throughout marriage as well. If we are not actively checking back on how we are doing, we may miss something and feel a bit unsteady.

Spiritual Leg- Hubby Wifey Morning Spiritual Plan